Although I don’t cancel plans on the last minute to give her a dose of her own medicine, I started NOT making plans with her unless it’s a group thing. In that way, even if she cancels on the last minute, I can still do as planned, without her. She’s frustrated that “I seem to be very busy lately”, but my response is : Yes, I am.
Honestly, what she's doing is very disrespectful to you and is a characteristic of emotional abuse - never being available when she says she will be, making you fit to her schedule, cancelling plans at the last minute, etc. While I did read the comments about depression and think she may be depressed, that doesn't make her actions any more right.
Two friends plan a trip together and their communication breaks down. My closest friend and I decided to plan a trip to Japan back in January. We are booked to leave around six weeks from my
Insane-Muffin. • 2 yr. ago. Damn, you’re someone /I/ would date and give a second chance to in a heartbeat. I would do the same if I had to cancel last minute like that: apologize PROFUSELY and sincerely, cover gas, and definitely make detailed plans for a second time to meet. I just had someone cancel exactly like OP, except he said his
The “Cancel Plans Last Minute” Test. My boyfriend would frequently cancel our plans last minute, giving various excuses like work commitments or family emergencies. I found this incredibly disrespectful and frustrating. After some time, I realized that this was a test to see how I would react to these sudden changes.
In some situations, this is standard, humans are versatile, and our moods change all the time. It’s okay to cancel plans every now and then. However, for people with anxiety, the problem isn’t limited to every now and then. It becomes an issue almost every time they have a plan to go out.
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